White Magic Curse
Threshold Rite For Becoming Unavailable To Old Dynamics
I withdraw my energy from patterns that no longer claim me.
- Type
- threshold
- Target
- person
- Tone
- scathing
Opening Reflection
There comes a point when the old dynamic cannot reach you anymore, not because they changed, but because you finally stepped out of range. This reflection marks that subtle but decisive shift: you no longer respond automatically, no longer bend yourself into familiar shapes, no longer walk the same circular path hoping it leads somewhere new. Their patterns stay behind, repeating themselves without an audience. This rite honours the clarity that arises when you stop being available for what once consumed your attention. It names the threshold between who you were inside that dynamic and who you are without it.
Invocation
I withdraw my energy from patterns that no longer claim me.
Method
Stand at the entrance of a room with a lit candle placed safely on the floor beside you. Hold a piece of string or thread—something simple, something that represents the pull of the old dynamic. Notice where your body tightens when you think of how often you crossed your own boundaries to maintain familiarity. As you breathe, feel that tension loosening. Speak clearly that you are no longer available for the roles, reactions, or rituals that used to bind you. Tie a single knot in the thread, not to bind yourself, but to acknowledge the pattern for what it was. Place the knotted thread behind you on the floor and step forward into the room without hesitation. Let the candle’s glow mark the new space you are claiming. Do not pick the thread back up. Let it stay behind you, symbolic and spent. When the candle burns low, extinguish it gently, signalling the close of the old doorway.
Closure & Aftercare
Wash your hands or face with cool water, letting the remnants of old expectations fall away. Breathe slowly and feel how spacious the present becomes when you stop offering yourself to dynamics that have proven themselves unworthy of your time. You do not need to explain your absence or justify your boundary. Being unavailable is its own protection, its own power. Move forward with quiet certainty.
Safety Notes
Pause if memories spike sharply; ground yourself before continuing.